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November 08, 2006

The Home Stretch, Project Valour IT

lullaby.jpg Another silent dawn. I sit at my keyboard, struggling to quiet my emotions as I gaze at the image on the monitor before me. There have been so many images like that of late.

Too many.

This one, though, is oddly comforting even if my cheeks do seem to be wet for some reason and my reading glasses are fogging up again though I cleaned them a moment ago.

Last weekend I asked you all to give until it hurt. Then I took a deep breath and raided the family bank account one more time. I was feeling a bit discouraged about our chances of winning this competition, let alone holding up our end of the bargain. But I went away and let it work.

I really didn't have much hope at that point to be honest. But sometimes when the setbacks come, all you can do is take things one step at a time. You have to have faith that if you keep working, things will come out right:

Things that used to be easy, or even so simple I didn't consider them, are now often insurmountable (like buttoning a cuff or collar.) I was once completely unable to bathe myself, my hands were so sensitive I couldn't hold the poofy soap things. Hell, at one oint, I couldn't even wipe myself. Luckily, I was unable to kill myself, too.

It wasn't luck, it was love that saved me though. Carren and my Mom spent months picking up the pieces, putting me back together, and pushing me to do the little things that make up a normal day.
Don't get me wrong, I wanted to do things, but everything was so hard I had no idea where to start... They stuck by me and kept me focused. Valour-IT was a start, of course. As swelling went down and "angry" nerves calmed, I slowly regained strength and flexibility. I re-learned how to do things like get dressed in something other than sweats, and (the matterhorn of challenges) tie my kid's shoes. (It still takes a while.)

It's been 17 months now, and I am so far from where I was on 22 June 05 that it's hard to believe it was only a year and a half.
The surgeons and nurses at the Army Medical Centers are geniuses, as are the occupational and physical therapists--all the kings horses and all the king's men, as it were.

Plans change, life changes. Sure, when the movie we wanted to see isn't showing, we see someting else. Not hard, really. When something requires not only a conscious decision to do something else, but long, determined action(s) to make them happen (some of which fail, miserably) it is much harder to see the point in trying, and continuing. You continue anyway, making adjustments as you go, because the cost of quitting is too high--wallowing in self pity, failing to continue enjoying life, in effect, you were killed when you were wounded, you just took longer to die.

Most of us take so much for granted; our lives are relatively uneventful and untroubled. A few sour notes can be enough to ruin an entire day and then we come home from work in a bad mood: grouchy, irritable, moody. But what if we lost the use of our eyes, a hand, both arms? We get unreasonably annoyed when a salesclerk is rude or unhelpful or someone blocks our path or slows us down in traffic: mere inconveniences. What if we really needed help - what if we were truly helpless, and the world simply turned its back and refused to see us? Talk about a bad day. A bad year. A bad life.

Yes, we're behind now. It appears that Army turned a Corner and Navy tapped into a Power Line. It's hard to compete with numbers like that. But what you all did last Sunday was amazing.
That one was all heart, you guys all the way and for the smallest service that is some achievement :)

That is what the Marines have in abundance - what we have always had - heart, and the ability to work together to move mountains. That's how we've overcome the Heinous Horde so far and taken the lead twice, despite being outnumbered and outgunned. And the only way we stand a chance is by working together. What I need from each of you is simple:

1. If you're a reader

- Please support Project Valour IT - any gift, even a small one - is welcome and needed. But please dig deep. Our wounded vets have sacrificed. Show them we understand and appreciate the precious gift of freedom:

- Spread the word! And the word of the day is...Exposure, exposure, exposure. WAIT!!!, PUT YOUR PANTS BACK ON, BOYS! We need Marine donation buttons on as many blogs as possible, and as many BIG blogs as possible. Please pester unaligned blogs you frequent - but *do* check to make sure they aren't already committed. Feel free to use the following text in your email:

Dear [insert name here]:

The Marine Team wants you!... to help us raise money for Project Valour IT, which provides voice activated software and laptops for severely wounded vets. This year's fundraising effort is organized along friendly (!) interservice rivalry lines. As the smallest team, the Marines could certainly use your help. Through a massive outlay of hard work and cash from generous supporters the Marines have taken the lead twice. Sadly however, we are currently under attack by the uncouth and uncivilized hordes otherwise known as the Army and Navy teams. We need reinforcements, and that means you!

At the end of the day, all funds raised go into the same pot. But competition makes everyone try harder and the Marine team would like to win this one in memory of the many brave men and women who have been lost or wounded defending this great nation. We hope you'll consider helping us by placing a Marine donation button on your site and promoting Project Valour IT until the drive ends on Nov. 11th. We have often been told that ordinary Americans have not been asked to sacrifice anything toward the two wars we are fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan, and in many ways that is all too true.

This is a simple and painless way to show our wounded vets that America honors and appreciates their sacrifices. Please don't turn away when these brave men and women need your help.

To learn more about Project Valour IT (a 501C non-profit organization):

http://soldiersangels.org/valour/index.html

To join a team, or get Marine donation button code:

http://soldiersangels.org/valour/listteams.php

- Donate something for auction, or just bid!

The Navy has all kinds of neat stuff. A few examples:

Poster of USS TEXAS, Flight Suit, Printed and signed copy of "Rhythms," a blogvel. Go up and check them out - there's plenty more!

And anyone can put things up for auction - any of you wise guys have some neat stuff lying around? Here's the auction page. Wives, get rid of some of that junk from his "I love me" room... heh. Also, as mentioned before the Air Force has two signed books - Marines in the Garden of Eden and Gulf War Chronicles, by Richard Lowry. They'll be personalized for the winning bidder!

2. If you're a blogger:

Please join the Marine team: the link for the Marine donation button is at the bottom of the page. If you want the code for the Marine team blogroll, please email me at cassandra dot vc @ gmail dot com.

Take a long look at the man in that picture at the top of this post.

Anyone who's ever held a baby knows about how much fun it is to sleep with one. Especially when it's not your own.

In a chair. In a war zone.

He's got to be tired. But that baby girl needs him and he didn't walk away. That's the caliber of man we have defending this nation. The kind of man who would come in after working all day and cradle a tiny girl in his arms so she doesn't have nightmares.

I know men and women like that - I've been privileged to live and work with them for over twenty-five years now, and they're on the front lines. Don't you walk away.

You know the drill. If you think you should be on it and don't see yourself, email me. I still have two names to add, so if you just joined, I'm working on it!

Update: I hate tiny posting windows.

Posted by Cassandra at November 8, 2006 04:30 AM

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Comments

You and the Marine team are doing an outstanding job! Keep up the good work!

As curt, the Navy team leader states, it's our wounded men and women who are benefitting.

Posted by: seawitch at November 8, 2006 07:42 AM

Ahh, now I can think of a positive side.

Posted by: MathMom® at November 8, 2006 08:27 AM

OK, kiddo...I'm a-gonna put the button on my blog, FWIW.

Posted by: camojack at November 8, 2006 08:41 AM

I just hit the donate button again. :-)

Posted by: Beth at November 8, 2006 09:17 AM

Thank you kindly.

I will too, as soon as I judge the poster contest.

But I'm going to have to hide the receipts from the spouse. I'm dreading tax time... heh.

Posted by: Cassandra at November 8, 2006 09:21 AM

People, I'll tell you that Cass isn't kidding about hiding the receipts. She has set the standard very, very high.

Cass, you are aweomse... in so many ways. :)

Posted by: FbL at November 8, 2006 10:17 AM

Well I am not so awesome at getting big name bloggers to link to us.

But I did fool a certain Professym into putting a button on his site! Heh... bloody fascist.

Posted by: Cassandra at November 8, 2006 11:06 AM

Yes it is a touching photo. And yes, I'm certain the Marines in Iraq, for the most part, believe they are their for good. The military takes orders and does what it is asked.

That makes it all the more tragic that they are there under false pretenses and positioned in a untenable situation by civlian leadership who never were in the military, nor fought a war. Yes, save the people of Iraq....and save our brave soldiers who shouldn't be doing the dirty work of idealogues. This election was a referendum on this abyss. I hope both the soldier and the child he's holding get to safety soon.

Posted by: Miguel at November 8, 2006 01:05 PM

Miguel,
There were no 'false pretenses.' That is an oxymoron anyway. And yes, the military takes orders and does what it is asked, but you seem to forget something: The little girl would most likely have been left to die, whether we were there or not.

One other thing: Our military strives daily to do the right thing and this is one of those things. No commander or supervisor is going to tell that SFC he had to hold that angel, he is doing it for all the right reasons and then some.
No false pretenses there.

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 01:14 PM

And I couldn't see the number of rockers under the chevron; no one ordered that MSGT to do it.
Period.

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 01:22 PM

Newsflash, Cricket...100,000 or more men, women and children have died from our bombing and armaments, as well as insurgent violence since we arrived in Iraq. It is very precious that this child is saved, but misrepresentative of our actions in Iraq. Checkout any website, civilian or government measuring the devastation in Iraq, and they will estimate slightly lower or considerably higher than this number. Saving one among many that have died is noble. Killing one, accidental or otherwise, in the name of this so-called Operation Iraqi Freedom, is ignoble.

Posted by: Miguel at November 8, 2006 01:45 PM

Newsflash, Miguel.

You're in enemy territory here, son. And I *do* mean "son"... because anyone infantile enough to come here, on THIS POST, and spew hatred about how our troops have been duped into this war, that they and their families don't know the truth.. is inexcusable. You have NO idea what you're talking about, or who you're talking to.
I don't normally feed trolls, but you need a smackdown.

Go away. Kos has a place for you, I'm sure... but not here. Not on this post.

And if you decide to stay.. put your money where your mouth is and pony up some cash for Valour-IT. After all, if you're going to trash the place with your hatred, you can at least help clean up your mess.

Posted by: AFSister at November 8, 2006 02:06 PM

Miguel, you really are an ass in the world.

Just ignore him AFS. He is just getting you riled up. Getting mad at an idiot wastes your time and doesn't bother the idiot: ergo, waste of time. Let it go.

Posted by: Cassandra at November 8, 2006 02:12 PM

It makes no difference whether an engineer "believes" he is good at building bridges Miguel. It matters whether or not his calculations are correct and whether he is competent. Likewise, many Presidents who were brilliant leaders and statement led this nation in war yet were never in the military. Their lack of military experience had absolutely NOTHING to do with the war.

That is a red herring and you know it. The war exists, independent of the military experience of the civilian leadership (who, after all, have been empowered by the Constitution to oversee the military).

Posted by: Cassandra at November 8, 2006 03:22 PM

I just got back from the Professym's site. There it was, under the 9/11 report he is reading.

Miguel, just for laughs and giggles, try to read through a post before you knee jerk. The insurgents prey on the Iraqis who want something better. They have a chance, literally a fighting chance to have something that no other country in the ME has...a democracy. You truly do not understand even the nature of the insurgents. Here is another newsflash; the insurgency is not made up entirely of Iraqis, but Arabs, Syrians and Iranians. They are killing their own religionists who know that it can be better.

Under Saddam, children like her were jailed, tortured and killed just for the crime of being related to their parents. I repeat, she would have been left to die. And it would not have mattered about her family's death, our presence in Iraq...her family was marked and that was the end of it.

Her life was spared. And what it comes down to in a way is the way we treat the so called 'enemy.' We do not make war on women and children, but the insurgents do. They hide behind them knowing we will not fire upon them because of it.

So get off your self righteous high horse before you get kicked in the head.

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 05:00 PM

What I want to know is how Miguel's life has removed the causes of war?

HOW CAN HE LIVE WITH HIMSELF?

Posted by: Cassandra at November 8, 2006 05:03 PM

Anyway, shame on you Cricket. Uday just shaved those young girls' heads so they would be cooler in the summer heat after he threw them out in the street. So caring.

Posted by: Cassandra at November 8, 2006 05:05 PM

Killing one is ignoble in the cause of freedom.
Anyone hear the Founders spinning in their graves?

Miguel, you have uttered some nonsense but that takes the cake. I take it you are pro choice?
Cause if you are, then those who volunteered made the choice to follow their orders and kill the enemies who would deny others the right to choose, even to kill emryos and fetuses.

Sayonara.

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 05:42 PM

*hangs head in shame*

Whatever happened to the diaries of Oogalay Hussein? I used to read them for inspiration.
As well as laughs and giggles.

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 05:44 PM

Oh come on Cricket, you know the Revolutionaries never killed any Brits. They just kinda tagged them and the Brits obliged by considering themselves "out".

Posted by: Masked Menace at November 8, 2006 06:08 PM

I remember now. When the Engineer was doing BCT,
he told me about that...how we learned about counting coup from the Native Americans and then the OCs from Phrance told the Brits they lost.
Of course the war was speeded up when MILES gear was issued to both sides...

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 06:28 PM

Plenty of military families who disagree with you all on this matter of Iraq. I reread my note to this post and didn't sense, nor imply, any hatred. Any hatred read by the reader was self-inflicted. This isn't about hatred...this isn't about being anti-military. This is about a lack of truthfulness which this administration used for committing our country to this fiasco.

I truly feel for every soldier and family who has too endure this thing. We can talk all day about Uday, Saddam and any other despot who we formerly supported. Those weren't the reasons we went into Iraq. Please read any document or 9-11 Report as it pertains to this war.

I know I've stepped into Illogical Land when the subject of Pro-choice/pro-life is juxtaposed against an illegitimate war. Please stay on one ideological horse at time. Especially when that is the topic.

It's wonderful that you all support the troops in Iraq. I have as well, sending money to funds that support families who've lost one of the 2,800 some soldiers in Iraq. It's seems that would be a major reason to get these people out to some degree....to not let them get killed for something which was fabricated. Please, nothing about freedom. We weren't thinking about the freedom of the Iraqi people when Don Rumsfeld met with Hussein in 1986....or when we didn't finish things in 1991 when the Gulf War was coming to a close....or when we bombed the country for over eight years under GHWB and Clinton.....or when GW stood on the deck of the Abraham Lincoln under "Mission Accomplished".

As you've seen from my post, I blame the leadership. The civilian leadership that caused this to happen. The soldiers are caught in the middle. That is unexceptable to me.

Posted by: Miguel at November 8, 2006 07:08 PM

You brought up the Sanctity Of Life. If it is immoral to kill for the sake of freedom, it is immoral to kill on any grounds. Do not infer or imply by any means that the two are mutually exclusive. The fundamental right to choose
is protected. Else why raise the hue and cry over rights, period?

And the NYT actually published a piece on how close Saddam was to getting a nuclear weapon.
Dared to chide the Bush administration for not classifying that document! Bush didn't lie.

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 08:09 PM

And Oogalay Hussein is not a real person. He is a figment of a blogger's imagination. Google the 'Diaries of Oogalay Hussein.'

Posted by: Cricket at November 8, 2006 08:12 PM

DILLIGAS about what is unacceptable to you Miguel. ESAD boyo. Or do all a favor. Take a quick ride over a bridge with your master Ted K.

Posted by: LtCol USMC(Ret) at November 9, 2006 07:04 AM

LtCol USMC, I'm sorry I don't understand what DILLIGAS is. I do understand what ESAD is. I am tickled when assumptions are made about what I said or didn't say. If "Cricket" is implying my mention of 100,000 dead Iraqis as a sanctity of life issue, therefore we invoke the issue of abortion, wow that is some twisted logic. And I never said this was killing in the name of freedom. Those are your words. My reference was one of irony, which is apparently lost on this site.

Freedom is the double-speak used by those who hookdwinked everyone on Iraq. And with all due respect Lt., if generals in most branches of the military are speaking out about this thing and you think its a good thing, maybe you've already drove off the wrong bridge. Machismo and crudety aside, you might want to take a look at military history. I"m sure you learned much about that at Quantico. WAs that Ted Kacyinski?

So what are you all saying now that Bush is changing his tune? Rumsfeld fired for the very reasons I've mentioned. Listen to the generals. Bush is now concillatory. How will you all feel when "Operation Iraqi Freedom" becomes a tactical and prolonged extraction along with a turnover to the Iraqis who are ill prepared for the outcome? By every measurement, the leadership of this administration has failed its soldiers and its citizens. Why all the anger, Lt., when I've supported the troops in my comments and criticized the Pres? Your cussing at the wrong guy.

Posted by: Miguel at November 9, 2006 04:51 PM

Miguel, the name of this 'action' is Operation Iraqi FREEDOM. People are gonna get killed, hurt or maimed to free others. You said it was ignoble to kill one in the name of OIF. YOUR WORDS, NOT MINE.

If it is ignoble to kill in the name of freedom, it is dastardly to kill for any lesser reason, abortion included. There is NO reason to abort unless there is a need to protect the mother and the consequence is abortion.

I do not want to hijack this thread, but you can't talk about the sanctity of life in a war
as though just by talking we can work things out
IT WON'T HAPPEN with talking. The terrorists don't want to LISTEN. And neither do you.

I am not responding to you any more.

Posted by: Cricket at November 9, 2006 06:59 PM

Wah, wah...take my ball and go home. You would have flunked jr. high debate. The difference is you are deluded into thinking the name is synonymous with the action. "People are gonna get killed".....you implied I thought it was for freedom. Its double speak sweaty. And it is ignoble. It's all over the place. George Carlin did a bit on oxymorons years ago which is apropos here.

"If it is ignoble to kill in the name of freedom, it is dastardly to kill for any lesser reason, abortion included." Funny, you've stated you are pro-life, and yet in view of this premise, you think its okay to kill Iraqis and military men and women in the name of this debacle. Now you might want to pray to your maker on that one. Seems you are the one deeming which life is sanctified, and which is not, not me.

Love the typical reductionist reasoning when one loses their cool. Since I won't listen, and terrorists won't listen to your logic, then I'm a terrorist. Wow! Bravo. Do you remember that the terrorists were originally in Afghanistan, not Iraq. Remember, no connection has been shown nor proven. So we left Afghanistan to go to Iraq. We had a chance to do something noble in Afghanistan. See? Get it now? Original idea for War on Terror. Good. Iraq. Bad. It really is that simple.

Posted by: Miguel at November 9, 2006 07:51 PM

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